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How do you get married in Wilmington, NC?


Here's your checklist.


  1. Get an appointment at Register of Deeds office in New Hanover
  2. Fill out a Marriage License Form
  3. Bring a valid photo ID and Social Security
  4. Pay $60 for your Marriage License
  5. Set up an appointment with the courthouse or officiant.
  6. Attend the ceremony with your partner and 2 witnesses.
  7. Sign and file the marriage license back at the Register of Deeds office.


🎉 Congrats! You're officially married!

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Step-by-step guide to getting married in Wilmington

How to get a New Hanover Marriage License


First you'll need to schedule an appointment at Register of Deeds office in New Hanover

Schedule an appointment online here or Call (910) 798-4530


Requirements:

  1. Complete a Marriage Form Here.
  2. You'll need to provide a valid photo ID, for example, driver's license or passport
  3. A proof of Social Security, for example, tax form, Social Security card, or a paystub
  4. Bring your partner at the New Hanover County Register of Deeds office in Wilmington to apply for a marriage license.
  5. $60 cash or card.


Notes

  • You both must be at least 18 years old. If either of you is 16 or 17, you'll need parental consent.
  • They DO NOT perform the ceremony there. You'll need an Officiant to do that for you.



Head to Register of Deeds office at the date and time of your appointment


Got to Register of Deeds New Hanover County Office

320 Chestnut St #102

Wilmington, NC 28401


Monday-Friday | 8:00AM - 4:30PM

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Getting married in Wilmington, NC

You have 3 ways of getting married in New Hanover County.


You can either:

  • schedule an appointment at the courthouse
  • hire an officiant to make your ceremony for you.
  • go to any church and get married there
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Getting married at the courthouse

Once you get your marriage license, you can schedule a time with the magistrate at the courthouse. It costs $50 to get married at the courthouse


Requirements:

  1. Your Marriage License
  2. Your partner and two witnesses
  3. $50, you need to have an exact amount.


Notes:

  • A courthouse official or magistrate will marry you.
  • You can only have up to 6 people in the courtroom.


During the ceremony, the courthouse official and witnesses will sign the marriage license, making your marriage legally valid.


Congrats you're married!

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Hiring a Wilmington Officiant


You do not have to get married in a courthouse.


Once you get a marriage license form from the Register of Deeds/Courthouse, you can hire an officiant to elope at your desired location.



After the Ceremony

To make everything official, the officiant will file the signed marriage license with the Register of Deeds office to officially record your marriage.


To enquire, submit a form for Officiant + Photographer + Witnesses Below!

Officiant and Photographer Package

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Done-for-you Elopement Package


Thanks for reading the guide all the way through! If you're looking an officiant + photographer to marry you somewhere else other than the courthouse.


This elopement package includes:



Elopement Planning
Officiant
Photographer
Online Gallery
Unlimited Download



Typical elopement times vary from 30-2 hours



Recent couple Eloped in Wilmington

"We couldn’t have asked for a better experience! Will and Glenn were our Officiant and Photographer, they did such an amazing job! It felt like having friends guiding us through the most important day of our lives. Wilmington was the perfect backdrop, and Glenn made it even more magical!"


Jessica & Mark

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Wilmington Elopement Photographer


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Frequently Asked Questions


How long does it take to get your marriage license?

If you're coming from out of state and wanting to get married in North Carolina, its possible to apply for an appointment, arrive at Register of Deeds, get a marriage license, and get married on the same day.


How much does it cost to get married at New Hanover Courthouse?

$60 for the marriage license, $50 for the courthouse fees.


Can you get your marriage license and get married the same day in NC?

Yes, you can get your marriage license and get married on the same day in NC.


How old do we need to be to get a marriage license in North Carolina?

You both must be at least 18 years old. If either of you is 16 or 17, you’ll need parental consent to get your license.


Can the officiant perform a ceremony outside of Wilmington?

Absolutely! Whether it’s a beach, park, or your favorite hangout spot, our officiants are flexible and ready to make your ceremony special.


Where can we get a marriage license?

If you’re planning to get married in North Carolina, you can apply for a marriage license at the Register of Deeds in any county in the state—not just Wilmington.


Can we get married at the Register of Deeds office?

Nope! The Register of Deeds handles licenses, not ceremonies. You’ll need an officiant to perform the ceremony.


Do you offer officiant services?

Yes! We can connect you with one of our officiants who can marry you anywhere you wish. Plus, we offer Photography + Officiant packages for an epic all-in-one experience.


Who will perform the ceremony at the courthouse?

A courthouse official or magistrate will officiate your wedding ceremony.


How many guests can we bring to the courtroom?

You can have up to 6 people in the courtroom during your ceremony, including witnesses and guests.


How do we get proof of our marriage?

You can request a certified copy of your marriage certificate from the Register of Deeds office for a small fee. This document serves as legal proof of your marriage.

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