If you’re planning to get married at St. James Episcopal Church in Wilmington, this is a practical starting guide.
If you still need your legal marriage checklist first, start here: How to Get Married in Wilmington, NC
St. James Episcopal Church wedding checklist
- Contact the church office and ask about wedding availability.
- Confirm ceremony policies and any church-specific requirements.
- Reserve your date and finalize your ceremony timeline.
- Complete your legal marriage license through New Hanover County.
- Build your vendor timeline (planner, photo, video, florals, music).
- Confirm ceremony details with the church before wedding week.
Church planning first, legal paperwork second
For most couples, these are two separate tracks:
- Church wedding planning: date, ceremony format, rehearsal, music, and church logistics.
- Legal marriage process: license + filing through the county.
For legal steps in Wilmington, use this page: How to Get Married in Wilmington, NC
What to confirm with St. James before booking vendors
Before final deposits, ask the church office:
- Guest capacity and ceremony timing windows
- Rehearsal timing and access
- Photography/video rules during the ceremony
- Music and sound policy
- Decor/floral limitations
- Any preferred or required coordination process
This avoids timeline issues and keeps your day running cleanly.
Real St. James wedding gallery
See a full wedding gallery from this church here: St. James Episcopal Church Wedding Venue Page
FAQ: Getting married at St. James Episcopal Church
Do we still need a marriage license if we get married in church?
Yes. Church ceremony planning and legal marriage licensing are separate steps in North Carolina.
Is St. James good for intimate weddings?
Yes. It works especially well for couples who want a historic church setting in downtown Wilmington.
Can we do portraits around the church?
Usually yes, but always confirm access/timing with the church team so it does not conflict with church operations.
Where do we start if we are planning both church + legal process?
Start with this legal checklist first: How to Get Married in Wilmington, NC
Then align your church ceremony timeline around those legal steps.
